I’ve been fortunate in my life to not really lose anyone close to me.    When Margot’s mother passed away in April I was sad for Margot and Graem.    I was sad because Margot never got to know her mother and sad for Graem that she never got to meet her grandmother.

Everyone has their own different way to grieve a loved one.   I know when I had the miscarriage back in December I was so torn emotionally and it was hard to get over the loss of my child.   Even though he/she was only a small fetus with not even a heart beat…   it still hurt.    Plus, it wasn’t something that I easily “got over”.

There are still days when I think about how my due date is in 22 days.   I think about how any day now I should be getting ready to go into labor.   

It’s been somewhat hard seeing our friend’s child.   I see Margot with the baby and wish that I could give her a child to hold.

Many people who have lost a loved one are choosing to grieve through Registry of Life.    Registry of Life is a website that provides a place for your loved one.   You can put pictures up, music, and memories.    It’s a nice memorium because you can go there when you want to be with your loved one or would like to be reminded of the good times you had together.

Right now the website is offering a two week trial period so that you can try it out and see if it’s something you would like to maintain.  

Registry of Life also offers special links that will help you through the grieving process too.